Egalitarians struggled for equality. Feminists worked for individualism. How come they have no families to show for all the progress?
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WHERE DID FAMILY GO?
Someone told me women’s rights were the best they’ve ever been. Interesting. People say the darndest things. Everyone swears their society is best. Each person claims to know more than the last. Today’s modern women believe themselves more liberated than their ancestors. They say all our grandmothers knew were beatings, forced marriages and societal time outs.
Are their claims true?
Family is the bedrock of society. Government is nothing but an organization of people. People have families or they don’t. Time tested models reveal family is best.(4)
Abandonment of family has no successful model in modern society. I dare say no society ever survived without family. Common sense tells me this. Scholarly research validates family.
Challenge me if you will. The sources are in the footnotes.
Let me know when you find successful independent A-sexual reproductions in humans. I think the last example we have was Jesus.
Basically, a miracle. A contested one at that. I digress.
Egalitarianism claimed success compels an ironic question.
WHY ARE MORE NON-MARITAL CHILDREN BEING BORN TODAY?
Abortions of convenience. Adopted thoughts fetuses aren’t alive. Discarded babies for imaginary dreams. At the heart of all this turmoil is fear. Fear of rejection. Fear of poverty. Fear the idea of a life together is unwanted.
Guys couple with gals. Gals couple to obtain validation through attention. Lust is confused with love.
Abandonment of family has no successful model in modern society.
All this chaos. The expense of chaotic reality is death of family.
Seldom do I hear of wife aborting husband’s baby. Rarely do I hear of husband purchasing plan B. There is only plan A in marriage. Children.
FACTS DO NOT LIE
Ironically, unmarried women accounted for 86% of all reported abortions in 2020 (1). Married women accounted for 4% of total reported abortions (1).
Most arguments about a woman’s right to choose stem from claims. These claims range from incest to rape. Let’s look at a chart to see exactly why women today are choosing abortion.
Source: Guttmacher Institute (AGI)
Based on this chart, today’s modern women demonstrate a clear trend. This trend is obvious. Women in non-marital situations are choosing to abort overwhelming for reasons not do with rape, fetal issues or health.
These choices show lack of accountability. Not taking accountability for your own actions is a poor character trait. Based on the charts above many women are having character and integrity issues. They are not owning up to the fact they made poor choices. They rather abort the baby than assume responsibility for their actions.
Casual consensual relations lead to unwanted baby problems. It is far easier to choose to abort a problem than deal with its cause. The cause is consensual modern sexual liberation.
Sexual liberation translates to what was once known as calling a woman immoral. I’m not calling today’s modern women immoral. I’m saying the values of today translate to immorality according to yesterday’s standards.
We live today. I know. Convenient.
THE ABORTION STATS ARE ABOUT GUYS TOO
This sad trend equally applies to guys. The guys who participate bear equal responsibility for participation. Guys fuel the insecurity by providing lack of commitment.
Guys pursue these casual relationships. Guys say things to get into bed. Once it’s time to get out of bed these guys don’t wait until morning. Women can’t dream about tomorrow because today never finished.
Seldom do I hear of wife aborting husband’s baby. Rarely do I hear of husband purchasing plan B. There is only plan A in marriage. Children.
Source: CDC. 2022
Unfortunately, modern sexual liberation is deteriorating the state of family in America.
Male promiscuity combined with female consensual acceptance provides the recipe for the statistics above. The chart above is not child abortion statistics. They are family abortion statistics.
CRIME & ECONOMIC HAVOC ARE THE CONSEQUENCES
It’s easy to dismiss personal choices. What affects our lives bears no consequence on others. At least that is what we tell ourselves.
Here is a quote which summarizes the point.
“The strongest predictor of whether a person will end up in prison, is that they were raised by a single parent”. C.C. Harper and S.S. McLanahan, “Father Absence and Youth Incarceration”, Paper presented at the Annual Meeting of the American Sociological Assoc., San Francisco, CA.
Want to hear another one?
Sure.
In 1996, 70% of inmates in state juvenile detention centers serving long sentences, were raised by single mothers. Wade Horn, “Why There Is No Substitute For Parents”, IMPRIMIS 26, NO.6, June, 1997
WHAT HAS CHANGED IN 25 YEARS?
According to Robert Rector nothing(4). Abortion rates increase for non-married personnel coupling. Other factors take a dive too.
Lack of marriage marital decline drives up child poverty. It also increases welfare dependence. Women are in their right to fear not affording a child. Statistics show they cannot afford children alone.
THE INDEPENDENT MYTH
If we review only quantifiable statistics the ‘Independent Woman’ is a myth.
We’re not here to talk about our feelings. My words do not begin with the sentence, “I feel…”
Statistics show independence degrades a woman’s quality of life. Independence increases her chances of poverty. Independence clearly makes her burden abortion.
There is also a flip to this coin.
There is no such thing as an ‘Independent Man’.
DEPENDENCE CREATES SUCCESS
No successful man will tell you they achieved success independently.
If you ever visit a congratulations speech from a man, you will find it is full of thanking others. Men understand independence is not good. Men are excellent cooperators. Men work with each other all the time.
You see men depending on each other in sports. Men depend on each other in military. Men depend on each other at work. Men are very good team players.
MEN UNDERSTAND HOW TO SUBMIT MODERN WOMEN DON’T
Men understand how to submit as well. Independent people refuse to submit. Lack of submission is rampant among modern independent women.
The great kings of old conquered the world with armies. Armies have people. There is no such thing as an army of one.
Men routinely submit to other men.
The military is a great example. I served. All us men said to superiors was, “Yes sir.”
This cannot be said (generally) about the independent modern woman though. Not all modern women. Just the independent type.
Independent means alone. Hopefully, you’re getting why independent women have such impossibility finding husbands. Independent people build themselves to be alone. So, they remain alone.
Woman or man. It does not matter. If you put independent in front of your name, you will attract no one.
WHEN WILL WE STOP ABORTING ACCOUNTABILITY?
Abortion is not a routine exam. I cannot speak for women. It is also not my place. I cannot say what a woman does with her body. I can observe. I can also repeat what nearly all women I know went through tell me.
Unanimously women friends told me abortion was a horrible experience.
I know no woman who told me abortion was good. I know no woman who told me it was financially affordable. I know no woman who told me abortion did not have a negative impact on them emotionally. Most said they psychologically suffered.
Women I respect your right to choose. My question is simple. This question is to women electing abortions of family for reasons other than incest, rape, or health risk.
Why are you choosing non marital sexual liberation which clearly seems to have nothing but negative outcomes?This is a rhetorical question by the way. It’s your choice. You are free to choose. Whatever you want. Maybe that’s the problem.
Seems like you need some knowledge above for success…
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Sources:
1) Centers for Diseases Control (CDC). “Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Reports”. Surveillance Summaries. Published November 25, 2022. 71(10); 1-27. Accessed January 7, 2023.
2) Guttmacher Institute (AGI). “Induced Abortion in the United States”. September 2019. Accessed January 7, 2023. Web: https://www.guttmacher.org/fact-sheet/induced-abortion-united-states
3) “Why There Is No Substitute For Parents”. Wade Horn. IMPRIMIS 26, NO.6, June, 1997. Accessed January 7, 2023.
4) “Marriage: America’s Greatest Weapon Against Child Poverty,” Heritage Foundation Special Report no. 117, September 5, 2012, Robert Rector. Accessed January 7, 2023. http://www.heritage.org/research/reports/2010/09/marriage-america-s-greatest-weapon-against-child-poverty.
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