The cost of a woman is priceless. The price you can afford is more than you think. The currency is priced in more than dollars.
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HIGH VALUE HIGH COST
There is so much talk about high value. High value men are the latest trend. What isn’t trending? High value women.There is much obsession about high earning men. Dollars don’t seem to change a lot. Value and worth are confused. Many misidentify a woman’s value. Many believe value is worth. These two are separate. You can be worth a whole lot but have no value. Let’s talk about a real multimillion dollar babe.
My fiancé.
I do not use names. Many know this.
My endless girlfriend was usually nameless. This is largely due to position. The woman who takes identity is special. She is permeant.
There is nothing more permeant than a wife.
VALUE & COST
You can be worthless and still command value. My fiancé is a woman measured in feminine energy. She contains masculine survival potential. She understands how to survive on her own. She realizes thriving is different than surviving.
Many wear surviving as a badge of honor.
Surviving a horrible experience is different than utilizing it to build your foundation to thrive.
A survivor tells their story to justify sympathy, instill confidence and offer testimony. A thriver tells their story when people admire who they are today.
Everyone knows a survivor’s story. Almost no one knows a thriver’s story.
My fiancé is a thriver. My fiancé is no survivor. She used her history to build her to the awesome person she is. She is a person before a woman. Gender is always second to person.
She is a priceless person.
BROKEN PAST IS TODAY’S FIXED FOUNDATION
My fiancé is the opposite of a woman who emerges from broken past. If you have the privilege to meet her one day consider yourself fortunate.
A survivor tells their story to justify sympathy, instill confidence and offer testimony.
My fiancé is emotionally stable. She acts emotionally stable. She understands deferment is a privilege. She extends this privilege to the right man. I am obviously this man.
Ladies you do not defer to any man, nor should you submit to any man. Your submission is a privilege which commands high cost. If a man is willing to cover this cost, you extend it.
A privilege is not a right. The privilege is conditional. You alone have choice to issue it or not. Feminism is about choice. You choose to allocate your privilege. Like any privilege you can revoke it.
Do not extend your privilege to a man who is not willing to earn and pay the fare. Kick him off the boat otherwise. There is no such thing as a free lunch.
My fiancé’s attitude and behavior allow me to lead. My fare cost came from consistent action, values, and commitment. The cost is quite high.
SHE IS OKAY WITH BEING VULNERABLE
Vulnerability. This scares many. Rightfully so. If you are in a compromising position, you can be hurt. Often, really bad. That is why the trolls in my articles make the comments they do.
A thriver tells their story when people admire who they are today.
They fear being vulnerable. They are scared. The unequipped cannot handle vulnerable consequences. They are too weak to deal with emotional fallout. They are not strong enough. Anger, belligerence, and aggressive words are signs of weak people.
I discover a woman who is strong. She can deal with vulnerable consequences.
DON’T CONFUSE THE LANGUAGE
I am not talking betrayal. I am talking natural consequences for becoming ‘we’ versus ‘me’.
I must be vulnerable as well. There is no trust in a relationship which has no vulnerability. There exist only competition, mistrust, and convenience.
Everyone knows a survivor’s story. Almost no one knows a thriver’s story.
I am not interested in competing with my spouse. I am not interested in having my spouse there for convenience. I am not interested in mistrusting my spouse.
She reciprocates this with commitment and access. No one has access to her. Her boundaries are clear. She also understands discomfort is part of life. She is always willing to be uncomfortable for a purpose.
My boundaries are clear. I reciprocate.
THE MULTIMILLION DOLLAR PROPOSAL
Anyone can read my bio. Anyone can read my international best-selling book “I Made It Then I Didn’t”. My path to earnings is no secret. Every dollar earned was a price to be the man I am today.
The experiences I earned in my life was to prepare me for the cost of our life together.
While others may say my value was north of the title; the worth of my actions cannot be quantified in dollars.
I am worth more than a stated value. Value is what others perceive. Worth is intrinsic. Every person
I encounter will value me differently. I am okay with that.
Value is perspective. Everyone is different. If you are looking to be highly valued from a man of my caliber…read the article again. I wrote for you the real multimillion dollar babe. I apologize I don’t know your name. Then again. That’s the point.
To Your Knowledge Success!
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Sources:
1) The life of Christopher Knight Lopez a Professional Hustler turned International Best Seller and Published Author of “I Made It Then I Didn’t”.
2) GlassDoor Website Search. “Project Manager Salaries”. Searched 10 January 2023. Web Link.
3) GAFM Global Academy of Finance & Management (American Academy of Project Management). Master Project Manager (MPM®) Certification. Issued 2015.
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About Christopher: Christopher Knight Lopez is a Professional Hustler turned International Best Seller and Published Author of “I Made It Then I Didn’t”. Christopher has opened over 7 businesses in his 15-year career. Christopher’s purpose is to take advantage of various market-driven opportunities. Christopher is a certified Master Project Manager (MPM), and Accredited Financial Analyst (AFA). Christopher previously held his Series 65 securities license examination and was a Master Financial Planner (MFP). Christopher also held his General Lines — Life, Accident, Health & HMO. Christopher has managed a combined 286mm USD in reported Assets Under Management & Assets Under Advisement. Christopher has work experience in 33 countries, raised over 50mm USD for various businesses, and grossed over 13.0mm in his personal career. Christopher worked in the highly technical industries of: biotechnology, finance, securities, manufacturing, real estate, and residential mortgages. Christopher is a United States Air Force Veteran. Christopher has a passion for family, competitive sports, fishing, martial arts and advocacy for entrepreneurs. Christopher provides self-help classes for up-and-coming entrepreneurs. Christopher’s passion to mentor comes from belief that entrepreneurs need guidance. The world is full of conflicting information about entrepreneur identity. See more atwww.christopherklopez.com.